The Rules of Dating, Vacationing and Compatibility
The Rules of Dating, Vacationing and Compatibility
Romantic Getaway - Travel Survival Tips
Vacations, distant destinations and a new amour conjure the
unexpected. The insecurity of unfamiliar surroundings can
surface irreconcilable differences amongst young love in bloom.
In Corona beer commercials, romantic getaways are depicted as
tranquil solitude during a breathtaking sunset. Beyond the
scenic print ads of exotic travel escapes, one story is left
untold. It is the reality of pandemonium. Traveling can make or
break a new relationship.
Very rarely, do travel agencies, reservationists and airlines
purport the trials and tribulations of vacation inconveniences:
Lost or stolen luggage Delayed itineraries Security gate
groping Language barriers Missing reservations Overbooked
flights Crowded check-ins
Despite the frustrations and aggravations of travel, it may
serve as a fast study on the future of a potential significant
other. Vacationing has a way of revealing one’s true colors.
It was a weekend trip to NYC when Jenny Aldridge (28) found out
that her lover was a manic depressant who failed to take
medication for treat his chemical imbalance. “When Kevin was not
under the influence of alcohol he was unbearable. I’m relieved
that I found out early. It saved me months of another failed
relationship,” shares Aldridge.
“My trip to the Greek Isles was the most hellish” trip, EVER”
states Landon McDaniels (36). He had been dating Shawna for 2
months when he invited her to set sail from Santorini to other
neighboring islands of Greece. Since, McDaniels was chartering a
boat with a crew of two other people, he assumed his girlfriend
would pitch in with some of the onboard duties. “Little did I
know, I was dating a prima Donna who whined about everythingand
sulked in the cabin most of the day,” articulates Landon.
Traveling with a new significant other does not always represent
a nightmare situation. When Stephanie and Greg went to Paris
together, they learned how they shared a curiosity for
non-touristy spots. Their compatibility was depicted in their
similar traveling style.
The author of “Dating For I Do,” Holly Bentz, recommends taking
an early vacation within the first three months of the
relationship. A 48-hour getaway can be very telling compared
with the time spent on a regular date. While new lovers may
think that they are altering their lifestyle during travel, they
really are not.
Consequently, it is appropriate to be respectful of another’s
life choices. Most couples place high expectations on the
romantic getaway. “Unfortunately, the relationship faux pas can
cause excessive undue stress. The best approach entails fairly
evaluating a prospective significant other for the bigger
picture, the fate of the relationship,” states dating expert,
Bentz.
Live by the following travel strategies to make your romantic
getaway an escape filled with compatibility:
Book a short trip. Instead of opting for the week in Santo
Domingo, try the weekend getaway.
Learn about their travel style. If your vacationing partner
prefers to schedule every available minute with activities and
you are more of a spontaneous traveler - set some guidelines.
Plan moderate itinerary in advance. Formulize a few common
interest activities to include in the getaway.
Make light of underlying differences. Before making an issue
of incidental situations, make light of conflicts. Remember,
that you are traveling with someone you care about versus
Satan’s reject.
To quell conflicts be flexible. Conflicts may arise from
bringing a lap top, to watching a soap opera or playing video
games. The idea is to diffuse any simmering differences.
Spend a little time apart. Keeping the peace can sometimes
mean ducking away to the driving range or spa.
Mind your P’s and Q’s in the restroom. The bathroom may
represent a battlefield for many couples. To accommodate the
other person, use the hotel bathroom, wake up a little earlier
to use the facility or simply request a double sink.
Avoid altercations. On the trip, skirt arguments and make
minor notes about essential differences. The disparities are
indicators of the future endurance of your relationship.
Whatever you discover about your prospective significant other,
remember to keep it all in its proper perspective: “You are on
vacation to relax, rejuvenate and enjoy!”